Give him a hand. By that, I mean a massage. Forget getting down and dirty in just a minute and leaving him high and dry (unless you got yourself a one-minute man). Instead, leave lingering touches that keep him wanting more.
Pay attention to parting smooches—they tell the difference between grandmother pecks and ‘lover-I’ll-see-you-later’ ones. Let your lips do the talking everytime you wish to reinstate your emotional connection. With over 100 times mornerve endings than fingertips, you can imagine the desire you’re able to evoke by kissing and stimulating it.
It’s nice to break the pattern once in a while. For that, there’s nothing more thrilling than a quickie. While I don’t condone hit-and-run/wham-bam-thank-youma’am kind of sex on the regular, there’s nothing wrong with getting right down to business once in a while (it’s a busy world we live in these days).
If you’ve got all night
When you’re both in no rush, why not indulge, sexually and emotionally, in or shower together—there is something pure and innocent in the act of getting clean together. There’s no rush, so be a little coy, act a little innocent—even if you’ve been together for over a decade. Offer gentle assistance in getting each other cleaned up, while refraining from getting too excited. When you’re both clean and refreshed, head to the bedroom and continue getting better acquainted or re-establishing the closeness.